"It's like, 'hmmm, I must do good work to make her see that I am a glorious lover" and then once we've just started to become convinced, all the stuff that was convincing us in the first place goes racing off, never to be seen again."

Ok, so...

In the joys of embarking on a new relationship, you always make new discoveries. You know, all about them, all about you, and all about how you interact together. Every new relationship introduces you to something original and fresh which, at least in the early stages, is something that can hopefully be considered a "good" original and fresh. Lately, I've been introduced (if not reintroduced) to an idea that is indeed something awesome...and that something awesome is this: Kissing is significantly underrated. Once sex becomes involved in a relationship - and the point at which this occurs (earlier or later) really doesn't matter because the result is the same - the concept of really making out really goes out the window. All of a sudden, it's like a race to the button! You both just can't get there fast enough! Women need foreplay in order to enjoy sex just as much as their partner, yet all of that gets totally disregarded once a couple starts having sex regularly. It's like, "hmmm, I must do good work to make her see that I am a glorious lover" and then once we've just started to become convinced, all the stuff that was convincing us in the first place goes racing off, never to be seen again. If we aren't careful, sex can become a monotonous, stagnant practice with little to no excitement (depressing isn't it?),  and isn't that the last thing we want to have happen? A 15 minute routine that you can literally describe every second of before it happens?

I am fortunate enough to not be in this situation right now - I quite seriously have very little to complain about, but it's when you are in a situation like this (a good one) that you realize how much you might of had to complain about before! I didn't realize how much of a the pre-show I was missing, until it got brought back! Making out is awesome! It felt good when we were 15, and it still feels damn good now,  and we'd see that if we actually spent any time doing it! It's time to bring the make-out back people. It's been in the grave for far too long!!

Blowing off some steam,

 - Jenn